12 ways grandparents can be everyday mentors
January is National Mentoring Month. The National Mentoring Month website provides oodles of information and plenty of reasons why mentoring matters, noting that — to name just a few — kids with mentors:
have better school attendance, better attitudes about school and a better chance of going on to higher education;
are 46 percent less likely than their peers to start using illegal drugs and 27 percent less likely to start drinking;
and have reduced depressive symptoms — "a particularly noteworthy finding given that almost one in four youth reported worrisome levels of these symptoms at baseline."
To be a mentor "...you don't need special skills, just an ability to listen and to offer friendship, guidance and encouragement to a young person," the site states.
I'd say that's pretty much what grandparents do on a regular basis.
For more concrete direction on mentoring your grandchildren, though, consider the following:
12 ways grandparents can be everyday mentors
■ Share knowledge and life experiences.
■ Provide guidance and advice.
■ Listen, showing genuine interest in questions and concerns.
■ Inspire.
■ Offer encouragement.
■ Be open and honest.
■ Help set goals.
■ Coach new skills.
■ Support new interests and efforts.
■ Discuss educational opportunities.
■ Explore different careers, regardless of how unrealistic they may seem.
■ Provide and help identify resources that support interests, goals and dreams — books, classes, websites, outings and experiences.
The official slogan for the 2014 National Mentoring Month is, "Be someone who matters to someone who matters." As a grandparent, you're already that for your grandchildren. If you're interested in being that for someone else, too, through mentoring, find out how to get started here.
Today's question:
Whom do you mentor most often — whether child or adult, relative or not?